Hi Ryan,
I know how stressful this is. You have to sit down, relax and rethink what your doing.
Every time you defoliate your trees, it uses its reserve energy to re-grow leaves. Not the best idea considering that they are already getting attacked by bugs. Weak trees are more susceptible to bug infestation.
If they are unhappy with horticultural oils, then stop using them. Insecticidal soap do the same job without adverse effect on your trees. Once a month spray with insecticidal soap will surely control bugs.
How do you water your trees? One of the thing I do to prevent and control bugs is I water with a watering can and give the whole tree a good shower (at least twice a week). Spraying the underside of the leaves with a spray bottle once a month also helps.
If I were in your shoes, I would start with insecticidal soap. As soon as it gets warmer, take them out and spray them with systemic. and before taking them in, spray them again.
As for the number of trees, on my bonsai shelf, I try not to get them too close to each other for better air circulation.
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The light fixtures are regular 2 bulb 48" t8 shoplights.
Hope that helps
Eric