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Am I reading this clearly?
@penumbra , first off, I like your name. Second, no, you are not reading this clearly. I am not asking anyone to go anywhere. I am asking one individual to refrain from commenting on my posts if he cannot do so respectfully. It's a simple ask, one that does not impinge upon anyone else or fundamentally alter the nature or purpose of the forum.
Your claim that you "have been there as have many many others" makes this site sound like some sort of cult, whose process of initiation I must accept and endure. If this is a cult, well . . . tell me more . Er, wait. I misspoke! If it's a cult (or, more aptly, a frat), I want nothing to do with it. As much as I enjoy getting a lashing from the church elders, I can find better venues for that sort of thing. I don't get the impression that this process of initiation is inbuilt to the BonsaiNut culture, as evidenced by your own admission that you "have found a few very valuable people here to be a bit blunt at times." If so few of the valuable people engage in blunt, disrespectful speech, then why tolerate it? Clearly they're in the minority. At the very least, I should be able to ask that such "blunt" people kindly avoid my posts, especially since by using the site we are "granting [the owner] with a non-exclusive, permanent, irrevocable, unlimited license to use, publish, or re-publish your Content in connection with the Service." If I'm going to sign away my rights to the content, I should at least have some modicum of control over how it appears, no?