They are definitely female cones.
Pollination (lack of) could also be the cause of the cones aborting. There's no point in a tree putting energy into maturing cones unless there's a chance of having seeds.
Assuming you have cones at this stage now try making sure that the tree is completely happy and see how they go.
Next spring keep an eye out for the male cones releasing pollen - warm, dry days when you bump the tree clouds of pollen pour out - then work out some way of making sure that some of that pollen reaches the tiny female cones. That's easier when you have a couple of plants and can pick one up and tap the branches above the cones of another but you might have to get creative if you only have one tree.
I'm assuming that is a yatsubusa or similar variety as it has short needles and multiple buds. Not sure whether all of the JBP varieties are able to produce seed but I can't see any reason they shouldn't.