Have lecture, will travel. I've given it to the Houston club, I could do it for Austin as well.
But it's not much of a secret - I water more. Twice today already - once before I left for work, once by a misting system at noon, and (some) of them will be dry when I get home. Gives me an opportunity to spend some quality time daily with my trees.
I use akadama, lava, and pumice - no organics (except for a handful of horticultural charcoal). I have two size ranges 1/8-1/4 and 1/4-3/8. I use the smaller size fraction for my less drought tolerant plants (bald cypress & fukien tea, primarily). Eveything else is in the coarse cut. The last couple of years I've experimented with substituting the lava for 1) more pumice, 2) haydite, 3) seramis. So far, I've liked the seramis best because it can hold as much water as turface, but has better drainage because it is well rounded and coarser grained.
This works for me, because it has taken a lot of the guesswork out of watering and fertilization. It's almost impossible to overwater, but the tradeoff is that it is extremely easy to underwater. It won't work for you if you can't water more frequently than once/day. If you can, I think you'll be happy with the results. It's a wonderfully satisfying feeling when you can see truly effective colonization of the entire pot and soil surface by roots - something I've never managed to obtain with turface (which I used for years).
Hope that helps.
Scott