The texture&structure of coir is better than milled peat, imo. The main caveats are that coir can be high in salts (literally sea salt, which ought to be washed out but apparently that is not the case 100% of the time), and that it lacks fertilizer. Plants do not grow optimally in 100% coir.
It also has a higher pH than peat, which is not good if you grow acidophiles.
As for growing seedlings only able to grow in rough peat, what seedlings are you growing? I would say that the opposite is true. Seedlings do great in the finer structure. You may want unmilled peat to improve soil structure for mature plants. I don't really get why they mill down peat so finely, and then try to add in something else to improve soil structure& aeration. Not sure why unmilled or partially milled peat are not freely available on the consumer market.
For seedlings, a potting mix that is a bit lower in fertilizer usually works well as a starter mix.
I know a good Dutch brand now. But I can only buy it for the normal price if I buy a pellet of 52 bags. Or I can buy an individual bag for double the price.