Here's an update. This video was taken a few months ago after repot and defoliation, but the tree is filled out with leaves once again and is quite healthy. I decided on the brown pot, but I'll go shallower this summer. Per some of the advice given here I've grown a branch towards the viewer to fill in the open space that the smaller 'daughter' had.
Yeah just like most tropicals they can be defoliated as long as they're healthy and actively growing, energy positive. I do it twice/year with most of mine before I add/remove wire and they always do well.
Wow a blast from the past - 2.5 years since the last comment! It's fun to see this old post though.
This tree did end up looking really good (IMO) but I sold it before we moved from California to Illinois.
Coincidentally after moving to Chicago I had a guy show me his favorite p.afra and it was this same old tree that I had grown and styled. He had bought it from the guy I shipped it to in Indiana. What a small world. It looked the exact same as I remembered it other than needing a trim. It's fun to see someone else enjoying my old tree.