This tree is grafted right here. It is common for the scion to not have the same diameter as the understock and there are many options to fix that. Sometimes the best thing to do is weigh options first then come up with a plan.
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For your next air layer you don't have to strip a lot of bark off, just enough to stop the flow of Auxin and nutrients to the roots and prevent bridging. It's also recommended to let the cut dry out for a day before putting soil around it. This is helpful if your airlayers keep failing due to bridging since this gets the last of the cambium to dry out. About this much bark should be removed for this diameter of tree. The top and bottom cut should be sharp and clean.
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